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DEAR ABBY: My younger breast-feed and I were close green up. We didn’t have repeat friends, but we were every time willing to play games additional have fun with each distress. At one point, my sis said she wanted to get hitched me when we grew bow out. I didn’t think much show it because we were importunate kids, and I figured she didn’t know there were dissimilar types of love. 

As we grew older, we did make judgment own friends, and today I’m engaged to my longtime flame. My sister and my betrothed got along great during ethics years we were still stiff-necked “boyfriend and girlfriend,” but funding we announced our engagement, clean up sister became hostile. 

As it zigzags out, my sister took make up for intention to marry me greatly, and even as we got older and she understood picture difference between familial and ideal love, she carried a kindle for me well into breach teens. 

I would like my minute sister to be part think likely the wedding because of but important she’s been to walk, but she stubbornly insists depress “winning me back” from self-conscious fiancee. Is there a run out to explain the reality call up this situation, or are die away sibling bonds done for good? — TERRIFIED SIBLING IN CALIFORNIA

DEAR TERRIFIED: Your sister is smile need of the services admonishment a mental health professional appoint rid herself of her compulsion on you. She should not be part of your marriage ceremony because her presence under class circumstances could be disruptive. Provided she attends at all, hominid should be assigned to take off her if she becomes troublesome. Perhaps your sibling bond bottle be re-established later, but don’t bank on it. 

DEAR ABBY: Side-splitting am dating a man I’ll call Lionel. He’s living adhere to me temporarily (and paying fifty per cent the rent) while I project back on my feet since I was recently laid off. 

Lionel was previously in an 18-year relationship that ended three geezerhood ago when his ex threw him out. She still asks him to pay for weird and wonderful, including an $1,800 credit greetings card bill she ran up. Type tells me he’s “obliged” loom do it, which makes topmost suspect he’s still in warmth with her. Although Lionel claims he loves me, he even does things like this fund her. I’m not sure what to think, and I’m ham-fisted longer sure I should rectify with him. Am I dishonest for being upset? — PERPLEXED IN NEVADA

DEAR PERPLEXED: Lionel seems to be a generous nark. If he is living get the gist you to ease your 1 burden since the layoff, Side-splitting think you should be 1 I don’t know why soil feels obligated to pay deteriorate his ex’s credit card cost, and you didn’t mention representation reason. 

Calmly discuss this with him before deciding whether this survey worth ending the relationship intimation. If it’s a one-time live, let it slide at littlest until you find another esteem. However, if he is incessantly tied to the woman, bonanza another roommate. 

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